“It’s no secret: guys and girls being friend is a concept held by only the dreamers. Any lady who believes that she can be a friend with a guy other than co-worker, co-student, or just on a platonic ‘hi-hi’ level is infact the most myopic lady to walk on this planet
A guy’s friends consist of, well, only guys. The only reason a guy would be friends with a girl would be to bed her. No guy is going to waste their time just being friends with a girl because it’s not like she is a sports freak or transgendered.
Guys have enough guy friends and won’t waste their time listening to ladies talk from a girl just to be their friend. Plain and simple he wants to bed you except of course you don’t mind or he has not made it obvious yet.
Guys being friends with girls is a farce: either he wants to sleep with her, or she still believes in unicorns, because a guy cannot genuinely be friends with a girl and its either the lady secretly desires him or vis avis even while one of the two are ignorant of this.
Infact i always tell a guy or lady to be more at alert when your bae says this about another opposite sex..”we are just friends,we enjoy each others company,we are just fond of each other” because once you start hearing this from your bae,you should run because fondness is stronger than the feeling of love and what your bae will not discuss with you will be discussed freely with that person so of what use is the affair you are having?
I know some people will say not in all cases and i quite agree but there is a simple test to know if there is no hidden notion or suppressed desire so please as a lady just prove me wrong? give that just friend of yours a kiss and watch him stop you. After-all you guys ought to be just friends.
And for the married man, snap out of your delusion and tell yourself hard fact…YOU ARE OLOJU KOKORO…Let your wife be your only friend,best friend and close friend and same for the lady.
Keeping “friends” of the opposite sex while married or committed to someone is an emotional affar and its even worse than actual physical affair.
Just trying to make common sense.